I therefore, the prisoner in the Lord, beg you to lead a life worthy of the calling to which you have been called, with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, making every effort to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.
Ephesians 4:1-3
So far, I’ve been keeping my blog clean of controversies. I’ve made it my effort to try and post uplifting, grace-filled messages so that you, when you read this, may come away feeling God’s love for you. This post will break the first goal, but hopefully still keep the second.
Tomorrow (Friday, August 21) the ELCA in our Churchwide Assembly will vote as to whether to allow homosexuals in relationships to be ordained ministers. This has become a great controversy in our church, along with the controversy in the wider world about recognizing those same relationships.
And I, being a prisoner of God’s Word, both Law and Gospel, feel that the only controversial point of the whole discussion is why it has become a controversy.
I’m wondering about the nature of controversy. Why do we allow disagreements, problems, dislikes to become controversies? Is there any way to stop controversies? Is there any way, in our present world, that a problem will not become a controversy?
According to www.dictionary.com, a controversy is a public dispute between groups with opposing views. But what sets a controversy apart from a public debate, public discussion, or other form of settling opposing ideas? I feel that it is the vehemence with which the dispute is carried out. I mean, between any of our friends, there is likely to come about a dispute with opposing views (even over something as simple as what to eat for dinner). But that dispute, whether public or private, is not carried out with utter disdain and dislike for the opposite side. But in a controversy, both sides see the other as not just wrong, but even evil.
I think the other break between a debate and a controversy is that controversies seem to be drawn out. Any other argument can be cleared up fairly easily and quickly. But not a controversy. These incessant, ongoing, angry arguments seem to always come back around in a never-ending spiral of hate.
It is with these two aspects of controversies that I, with a heavy heart, await the vote in the Churchwide Assembly tomorrow. Not because I don’t want this resolved (and not that I don’t have my opinion about the way this should be resolved), but because we’ve allowed this to become a controversy. We have decided that the only way to resolve this issue of our life together is with hate, anger, and threats of leaving.
And so, in my devotions this week, I came across this passage from Ephesians. And I wonder, in this controversy, where is the humility? Where is the gentleness? Where is the patience? What would it mean to bear one another in love if the other dislikes you for everything you are? What does it mean for those (on both sides of the issue)who are threatening to leave the ELCA, when we are told to make every effort to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace?
Sure, we justify ourselves by declaring the bond broken if the vote doesn’t go our way, but that is just what it is: self-justification. We self-justify ourselves by reminding us that it is God’s Law, and we must follow God’s Law, even though we all break God’s Law with our every action and every intention. Have we cast ourselves into sin unwillingly and unknowingly, or did we jump in, eyes wide open?
I have become convinced through all of the controversies in the recent months that a controversy is the work of the devil, sent to us to distract us, given to anger us, to drive us to evil actions, evil intentions, and to break the power of the Gospel in our lives for the sake of the Law.
And here is our salvation. Here is our hope. It is not for the sake of the Law that we will be saved! We can (and do) break every one of God’s Laws. And yet, when God saw it was the right time, our God sent Jesus Christ into the world to save us from the power of the Law with the power of the Gospel - the good news that God’s Kingdom is breaking into this controversy-filled world, shattering our self-justification, making us God-justified.
Why should we turn our backs on the power of the Gospel for us, for our friends, for our enemies, for our world? Do we distrust the Gospel so much that we would rather follow the Law? Could anyone survive that? Do we really think that the Law will save any one of us, heterosexual or homosexual? Do we really think that the power of the Gospel is only for those heterosexual, as if sexual orientation is a limit on the work of the Spirit?
Of course not! We are Lutherans, born and bred since the 16thCentury to know that God’s Grace is sent to us in Word and Sacrament, no matter who we are, no matter what Law or rule or law we have broken. God’s Word does indeed come to us in Law and Gospel, but both carry us finally to God’s Grace. This is the only thing that is real in this world - that God’s Grace is for all, regardless of nationality, gender, law-abider or law-breaker, homosexual or heterosexual. If, in the end, Grace is not for all, then Grace is for none, for if in any way we must earn Grace, then it is not Grace, but Law, and we are all dead and forsaken.
But we are not forsaken. We are gathered into the body of Jesus Christ through our baptism: one Body, one faith in one Lord. That is who we are. No more should we let controversies distract us from our mission in this world of gathering every person into this body of Christ that bears us up out of the depths of sin, death, and the power of the devil, and unites us with our Lord now and forever.
This is my prayer for you, and for all at the ELCA Churchwide Assembly: Forgive us, Lord, for allowing your Grace to become lost in our conflicts. Bear with us in love, maintaining the unity of the Spirit in peace, humility, gentleness, and patience, whether we agree with what happens tomorrow or not. Jesus Christ, you are our Lord whether we are right or wrong, so do not let us break the power of the Gospel for the sake of the Law. Rather, let your Gospel ring out for all to hear! Amen.