Ah, the good old days!
Sunday, March 22nd, 2009“Do not say, ‘Why were the old days better than these?’ For it is not wise to ask such questions.”
Ecclesiastes 7:10
I think we all have the tendency to look back on our history, and most of us come to believe that the past was better than the present. It always seems like we were happier, safer, and lived easier in the past than we do now. We even hear this sentiment from family and friends.
Of course, when I was growing up, I heard the other side of this story. I heard all about how winters were always colder, how my dad struggled more than we did even to make it to school! You know that type of story: “I had to walk through snow 12 miles uphill both directions, and I enjoyed it!” Even when this type of tale was woven, it was always in favorable comparison to what was going on at the present (which was usually my dad having to drive us from one activity to another).
But we hear this story too often in the church. We look back in time to a “golden age of prosperity” in our particular congregation, or our city, and we compare it with what we see now. We remember when the pews were filled with children and all of the activities and Bible studies were fully attended. And the pastor preached better sermons too!
But here, in Ecclesiastes 7, we are told that it is not wise to ask these questions. It is not wise to compare the present with the past. Why?
One reason is that our perceptions are always flawed. We may remember more children in the pews 10 years ago than are there now, but that was probably because they were louder! We may remember a lot of people involved in the activities we attended, but we only remember that which we attended. We don’t know about all of the other activities or Bible studies to which we never went!
To compare the past with the present is a sign of unwisdom (Is that even a word? If not, I invent it now!) because it demonstrates for all to see our limited scope, our small perceptions, and our fears.
And our fear is always the basis for this comparison. We fear the change going on in our world, our neighborhood, and our church. But what we do not realize is that we, too, are changing. We are not the same person that we were 10 years ago, and that colors our perceptions as well. We tend to see only what we want to see, and those things that we do not want to admit are real become invisible to our eyes.
Only God sees all as it is. We can only see what we allow ourselves to see. We always need to beg our Lord to let us see, even a little bit more, of what God’s plan is for us, our church, our neighborhood, and our world. That is the connection in the parable of the blind man in Luke 18: 35-43.
In this story, Jesus is walking down the road, and a blind man calls to him, “Jesus, Son of David, have mercy on me!” This is an interesting call to one who throughout this gospel telling has been referred to as an itenerent healer. This blind man sees more clearly than the disciples who were, immediately before this story, told by Jesus that he would have to die and rise again, but they did not understand. “In fact, what he said was hidden from them, and they did not grasp what was said.” (Luke 18:34).
This blind man, when Jesus approached him, asked Jesus to restore his sight, even though he was one of the very few that could see. “Jesus said to him, ‘Receive your sight; your faith has saved you’” (Luke 18:42). Faith allowed him to see Jesus as the Son of David, and faith allowed him to follow Jesus and glorify God after this healing. Faith allows us to see that, although this world is changing, it is not changing for the better or for worse, but for opportunity. Faith allows us to glorify God, so that all they people, when they see it, will praise God as well (Luke 18:43).
When we are blind to the opportunities that God puts before us, we cannot be the body of Christ we are called out to be. When all we see is negative change, and compare our “good” old days as better than these, we will not work to spread the good news!
When God gives us the faith to see, we also realize that the “good” old days were not nearly as good as we remember. The author Annie Dillard put it this way in her book For the Time Being: “There were no formerly heroic times, and there was no formerly pure generation. There is no one here but us chickens, and so it has always been: a people busy and powerful, knowledgeable, ambivalent, important, fearful, and self-aware; a people who scheme, promote, deceive, and conquer; who pray for their loved ones, and long to flee misery and skip death. It is a weakening and discoloring idea, that rustic people knew God personally once upon a time - or even knew selfishness or courage or literature - but that it is too late for us. In fact, the absolute is available to everyone in every age. There never was a more holy age than ours, and never a less.”
Our time is as holy as the time in which David reigned over Israel. We can talk with, and even wrestle with God as much now as Abraham did so long ago. Our days, our time, will one day be the “good old days” for our children, who will remember their youth with fondness just like we all remember our youth with rose-trimmed glasses.
But it is up to us to remember that today has as much holiness available to us as any day. Each and every day God is sending us out into this world to be a blessing to all whom we meet. Each and every day can be better than the last because each and every day we can grow in our faith, love, and trust in God and in our service to others.
God help us to do this!